It's snowing

It is 24 degrees outside and snowing,  perfectly normal weather for December in my part of the USA.  Monday on the other hand it was 62 degrees and sunny. I feel like that is a very drastic change within four days.   So I wanted to ask if anyone else had such strange weather this week?
Anyway,  as the year is coming to an end I am thinking about what changes I want to make in my life.   I feel like 2014 will be a year of big changes for me.  I don't know why I feel this way, but it has been a feeling that is building up inside me. 
I know I want to move out of my apartment.   I really only use my living room,  kitchen, bedroom,  and bathroom. So I want to move and save some money plus my place has many horrible memories attached to it now and I would like a fresh start.  
I applied for a newly posted job here at my company and I really do hope I get it.  The job I have now is fine but thats it just fine.  Moving up is a necessity for my if I want to do anything.   I can't stay still anymore.  
And then there is my marriage.   I have no clue as to what to do.  I play out different scenarios in my head,  debate on my options and then do nothing. I know what I would tell a friend to do but for me I just don't know.   I need a crystal ball or maybe a magic 8 ball.